First, thank you for taking the time to comment. That is how we improve and better our site for all our customers.
1) If I understand your suggestion correctly, this is a browser setting. If you are using Firefox it will refresh the page when you return to it. For Explorer, you return to the same place in the page.
2) Permanent wishlist settings are something other customers have brought up as well. We (since this is a co-op of vendors) will talk about it but I do not envision it being too difficult to implement.
3) This is a much higher priority item, IMHO. Having a wishlist "button" would be very convenient and useful to our customers.
Thank you again for taking the time to comment. I hope you understand that I am very busy coding and already have a long list of functions to implement but I will do my best to work your suggestions in where possible.